I am so happy to see the viewer statistics and the encouragements from you. Some felt wrong about my intentions. One among them is Jo. She chatted with me on last tuesday and asked me to refrain from writing more.
Here is the actual chat conversation (accusations) of her
JO:
{
ur trying to spoil her reputation
now u r not following the tenth commandment i can say
ur sinning actually
how can u tell that someone s wife kissed u
that wud ve happened b4
but now she is the wife of someone else
and ur talking abt old stories now
u can always justify yourselvfbut thikthink if ur true to yourself and to God u cant hide ur inner thoughts from God la wihtout God s blessings can she be happy
when God has decided to bless her , y r u still against her
so God only told u to write such things and publish to everyone
u can never get answer for that because God ll never give u such mind
but i consider u like my brother ly ... u look like my brother... thats y toltold frankly wat i thot
i dont want to know anything from ur side
now she is someone else wife
remember that alone
}
I feel some of my readers might have this type of thoughts about my writings, so i just want to explain them about my stance. Following is the reply mail which i have sent to JO.
Dear JO,
I have no intention to defame her or disturb her personal life. I know that She is gone and she will never come back in my life. I am not writing to prove the world that she is wrong. Moreover i am not intending to create any sympathy for me.
Then you may ask why are you writing..
See!!!!. you have seen lot of guys in the world, who have lost their future (even their life) because of this type of Girls/ Relationships. It is a very painful thing, which can blow away the future of the guys. It is not easy for d guys to withstand this tribulation without knowing the other face of commitment/relationship.
Girls doesn't know the pain of the ditched guys. They are so selfish and move with their life. Moreover they think that that was just an infatuation or LUST(But actually IT is NOT) and finally move on with some other guy. Very importantly, MOST of the girls doesn't know that " THIS IS A SIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" ......
This letter is intended to create the AWARENESS about the inappropriate life which guys& girls are carrying it out in this 21st century. I am writing some realistic personal things to showcase the readers about the intimacy of the Love, which is happening in everyone's life and to finally tell them " how everything can be changed".
This letter is an advice to all guys, who are into the relationship. I want to equip themselves to face the reality and warn that anything can happen in real life. If you hv read my Preface, you would hv come to know my intentions bit clearly. I have clearly mentioned " what should be the take in any relationship". It is NOT REVENGE!!!!
Consider an analogy,
A girl is living with a guy and both were happy in this world. One day the girl has been detracted from the guy because of seeing the materialistic things in this sinful world. The guy tries to convince her and get her back. But finally she ditched that guy, she went with some other guy.
" What name you will give to that girl?????"
I still remember what she told while dumping me. It still pains/ hurts me a lot. But i am not here to defame her. I just want to express the pain/ love which i have for her.....
Most of the girls are doing the same and they don't know that this is a SIN.
In the above analogy, if that guy feels that this girl has done a SIN and no one is there with her to pin point her mistakes and make her repent for the sins, He comes out with a letter to show the love they had and the mistake she has committed.
If he does like that, DO U think he is disobeying the TENTH COMMANDMENT OF GOD?????
"You can ask me - then y r u writing the letters in public."
In this present world(you also know), how many lustful relationships persists. Girls/ guys are having all the fun before marriage and going to church/temple for marrying some other guy/girl.
Do you think it is correct??????
Most of the persons doesn't know that this is a SIN. I am here writing these posts to show them that this is a SIN. So i have made it public, so that everyone knows about it. I can't say that it will change everyone but this letters will obviously create atleast some minute impact in the life of those guys/girls.
This letter proves the never fading love which the guy has, towards her girl and this also can warn those girls who are into these type of relationships.
Is anything wrong with my intention???????
Jo, yesterday you talked about the God's blessings for her. I don't want to comment on that since it is a very individual specific statement.
But i want to tell you one thing " Change ur outlook towards God's blessings".
SATAN can also give worldly blessings- Don't forget.!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jo, if anything is wrong in my perception of things, please let me know it.!!!!!!! so that i can change it......
Thank you
with regards,
AUTHOR
After reading this mail, JO came out with a reply " YOU CAN WRITE" and added that "please restrain from mentioning some of the adult contents because it may affect your future".
Dear readers, if you feel anything wrong with my intentions, please let me know it.
THANK U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Disclaimer: This work is fictional and resemblance to any character in the world is coincidental.